I keep getting all this advice on how to heal
on where healing begins
and how and when it should end
I keep being told
you need to write out everything that happened
you need to speak it aloud to your lover your inner circle your own self
you need to leave where it happened you need to go back
you need time you need to hurry and forget
you need to be positive you need to be negative you need to imagine revenge
a seafoam eye for an umber one
or in your case milk fed entrails spilled out in clammy calamitous hands
instead of those fed fat on green bitter nopalitos and red sweet tunas
But every time I take out the see-through paper to write every bitter word you slathered
every time I try to imagine sinking my brown fingers into your white tummy
every time I acknowledge that I left the place but carried the home with me
no matter how many poems I narrate to my boyfriend my cabal of witches my self
every time I try and do any of these healing things
laying in the hot sun or in the cool of a vernal pool
hands splayed over the waist you so unkindly grabbed telling her over and over
that I’m sorry I’m sorry I am sorry
I can’t.
because instead of imagined violence bathing me in sanguine healing
it drives me to remembrance instead
I remember your chuckle, how the air would be expelled from your nose at the end
like a jade-green dragon blowing smoke from his scaly scintillating nose
right before he snaps off your head in his million-mawed jaws
I remember how your eyes are the exact shade of green of the ocean in Puerto Peñasco
when you wade in at sunset to the spot right before you drop from the continental shelf
where black dolphins swim round feeding blue jellyfish to white belly orcas
I remember how heavy your hand was when you pet me after the election
because you were apologizing for other people expressing the same sick thoughts as you
about black men and brown girls and folks who are neither but love both
I remember that bottle of purple-throated merlot
the thought that I had lipstick that color passing through the tiptop of my frontal cortex
right before you tell the waitress to bring a straw so the baby can drink her juice
and I realize the juice is the glass of swirling merlot you placed in front of me
and the baby is me
And I’ve left the place but when I close my eyes on the Bergen havn
it almost feels like nothing has changed at all and I’m back in that humid library
not realizing that your smile is actually a leer
not realizing that you aren’t listening to my gossip and the interest in your voice
isn’t about my words
its about how when I kneel on your carpet I’m at perfect height
not realizing all those times you were standing too close because I could smell you was
because you were trying to smell me under the perfume and the dry shampoo
not realizing the emotional buildup the community had built up around someone else
should’ve really been meant for you
because what was hotter to you than
reimagining what your petty life could be like inside a little brown girl?
And all this floats by me and hurts like the thousand flung needles of jellyfish tentacles
the time I stepped in the gelatinous blue of a man o war when I was in Puerto Peñasco
because I was too busy admiring that green right before you fall off the continental shelf
it happens when I am alone in bed or in a sea of people at the market or
when I am laying in the cool of a vernal pool or in the hot sun
or when I am talking to that kind fisherman and he invites me for a drink
and all I can think of is how that merlot swirl, swirl, swished in the glass
as you told the waitress to fetch a straw so the baby can drink her juice
or about how if C and M and S and J hadn’t been blowing up my phone
that night outside the bar, vibration notifications a tiny earthquake in my hands
freeing me up to bury my face in my phone and my heels into the pavement
you would’ve really been able to reimagine what your petty life could be like
inside the abandoned body of a little brown girl.